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Could playing more help you eat and stress less?

Emotional eating is a signal that life is out of balance. Emotional eating and overeating happen when we use food to try to help us manage our feelings. The triggers for emotional eating vary–we might eat to cope with loneliness, unhappiness, stress or boredom. Sometimes we eat for comfort or in an attempt to create a pleasant experience, when food really isn't what we crave. Finding other avenues to meet our emotional needs and other ways to shift our moods is one of the most powerful things w… Continue

Added by Melissa on January 26, 2009 at 8:52am — 1 Comment

Oprah and Emotional Eating

If you haven't heard yet, you will soon—it's everywhere in the media. Oprah has disclosed that she has regained weight she worked so hard to lose and that she now weighs 200lbs. My heart goes out to Oprah—as well as to the millions of women who struggle just like her. Today, on a morning news show, I watched two reporters banter back and forth about what they believe she should be doing to reach and maintain a lower weight. They discussed their certainty that slower weight loss, smaller meals, a… Continue

Added by Melissa on December 10, 2008 at 9:14am — No Comments

Stay out of Overwhelm: Learn to Press "Pause"

One of the most powerful things we can do to maximize our effectiveness, minimize our overwhelm, and be more successful is to know when it is to our benefit to actually do less. We truly can't do it all and we will virtually never get it perfect. Getting fixated on "fitting it all in" or not knowing when we've done enough (because we get stuck in that nonproductive idea of trying to make it perfect) can be a trap that leads to overwhelm, stress, feeling like we can't succeed, and often, resorti… Continue

Added by Melissa on December 10, 2008 at 9:05am — No Comments

Three steps you can take to avoid stress eating

Do you turn to food when you feel stressed or overwhelmed? Does a bad day at work send you off track with your eating or exercise plan? Does an out-of-control to-do list leave you craving chocolate? There are ways to avoid the stress eating/emotional eating trap. Here are three straightforward strategies you can try. 1. Know that you ARE a stress eater This one sounds like a no-brainer, but it’s an important tip. If you are someone who turns to stress in response to food, it’s an important fa… Continue

Added by Melissa on December 10, 2008 at 9:01am — No Comments

How NOT to eat emotionally: Ten things to do with a feeling when you really don’t know what to do with it

How many times have you started at diet or weight loss plan, a fresh new day of healthy eating, only to feel completely derailed by an unexpected bad day, an awful experience or strong emotions—hurt, anger, disappointment, even boredom—that seemed to magnetically pull you to the refrigerator? We’ve been talking about that in my Coaching Club program and it inspired this post. Ten things to do with a feeling when you DON’T KNOW what to do with it: 1. Breathe Sit tight. Breathe in, breathe ou… Continue

Added by Melissa on December 10, 2008 at 8:57am — No Comments

Emotional Eating Tip of the Week: VOTE!

There is something I say so often that my coaching clients can probably quote it in their sleep. “When things feel out of control, focus on taking care of what you CAN control.” This is a much more effective strategy than our tendency to try to avoid or muffle what’s going on by overeating and creating an ice cream-induced coma. There are so many things around us today that may feel out of our control and that are contributing to the stress and worry that we carry. Here (again) is my advice: “W… Continue

Added by Melissa on October 31, 2008 at 8:51am — No Comments

New holiday program for getting and staying on track with emotional eating and overeating

How would it feel to wake up on January 1, 2009 proud that you maintained your priorities without being sucked into holiday overeating, emotional eating, overwhelm, and overload? That's the goal of my brand new program Your Holiday Health CluContinue

Added by Melissa on October 24, 2008 at 6:31am — No Comments

How to take control of stress eating, overeating, and seasonal weight gain

Do you tend to gain weight as the seasons change and the days get shorter? Are you finding yourself emotionally eating or stress eating as you watch the pundits on TV deliver the latest scary news about the economy and our retirement/college savings? 'Tis the beginning of the season, in s… Continue

Added by Melissa on October 12, 2008 at 5:32pm — 2 Comments

Is the economy leading you to overeat?

It’s a stressful time and it seems like we can’t turn on the TV or radio without hearing somebody whose job it is to fill the airwaves with repetitions of all the bad things that are happening or might happen in the future. People are worried and frustrated. Many feel out of control. The… Continue

Added by Melissa on October 8, 2008 at 10:19am — No Comments

It's Time For a New Relationship With Food

My heart feels heavy. Self magazine has released the results of an online poll of 4000 women between the ages of 25-45. The poll was conducted in conjunction with the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Sixty-… Continue

Added by Melissa on September 29, 2008 at 1:24pm — 2 Comments

Take Control of Emotional Eating and Overeating: Another Free Teleseminar!

It’s only September, and yet at my local warehouse club, the Halloween candy is displayed right next to the December holiday goodies. I’ve recently talked to two clients who want help with their emotional eating but are feeling like they need to put off taking action until “after the holi… Continue

Added by Melissa on September 23, 2008 at 6:18am — 2 Comments

The Power of Small Steps

When we consider setting goals or making changes we tend to overestimate what we can do in the short run (and create goals and expectations that are too big) and underestimate what we can accomplish in the long run. I believe that we completely underestimate the value and the power of s… Continue

Added by Melissa on September 17, 2008 at 7:38pm — 2 Comments

Life Coaching 101: 3 Steps to Moving Forward and Getting Where You Really Want to Go

As a Life Coach, I help people get where they want to go and do what they’ve always dreamed of doing. Over and over again I’ve seen people achieve tremendous goals and create enormous change—the kind of progress that tends to make other people say, “Oh, I could never d… Continue

Added by Melissa on July 31, 2008 at 11:08am — 1 Comment

Emotional Spending?

Here’s more evidence that it pays to be mindful of your mood—or more accurately—that it might literally cost you if you aren’t. A recent study by researchers at Harvard, Carnegie Mellon, Stanford and the University of Pittsburgh found that study participants who watched a sad movie cli… Continue

Added by Melissa on June 30, 2008 at 11:34am — 2 Comments

How to identify emotional eating: ten signs

I'm often asked about how to identify whether or not emotional eating may be an issue. Emotional eating is not always easily identified. Here are some patterns that are likely to indicate that some kind of emotional eating is going on: 1. The hunger comes on suddenly and the need to e… Continue

Added by Melissa on June 24, 2008 at 2:43pm — 4 Comments

Emotional Eating: Creating Enduring Change

I’ve spent a lot of time in airports lately. That means that I’ve spent a lot of time at the news stand, scanning the covers of magazines, looking for some nice relaxing reading material. In my browsing, I’ve been struck by how magazine articles emphasize making changes or starting som… Continue

Added by Melissa on June 24, 2008 at 2:30pm — 2 Comments

Stressed Monkeys Overeat Too

So what's the significance of this story? Well, I hope it helps some who tend to get so angry with themselves when they succumb to eating under stress. No, I don't believe this study means that we can't take charge of overeating, but I think it does show that emotional eating is complex and that our appetites are driven by a number of different issues and realities. The desire to eat to cope with emotions and stress is something that should be approached wit

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Added by Melissa on June 2, 2008 at 10:51am — 8 Comments

My Six Word Memoir: “Life is not the dress rehearsal”

I posted this quote (attributed to Rose Tremain) on my bedroom wall when I was sixteen and now it lives on my website--you can find it (here). Here’s a bit about what it means to me: Make sure you are writing the script you waContinue

Added by Melissa on May 26, 2008 at 1:49pm — 1 Comment

Mistakes that sabotage weight loss

The term emotional eating is thrown around a lot, but not everyone understands what emotional eating really is. Emotional eating is eating and overeating that occurs when we use food as a way to cope with a feeling, situation, or a need that is not physical hunger. Emotional eat… Continue

Added by Melissa on May 16, 2008 at 4:43pm — 4 Comments

Spring Cleaning For a Better Life

I saw a chiropractor for the first time last week. I have to admit, the long series of crunches, cracks and pops that echoed in my ear when he made his first "adjustment" thoroughly unnerved me. However, within seconds after that single, weird twist of my neck, I was flooded with the m… Continue

Added by Melissa on April 27, 2008 at 4:42pm — 3 Comments

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